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“We are sorry for your loss. It is our hope that you receive comfort and peace from God. (2 Cor. 1: 3&4) ”
1 of 16 | Posted by: christine smith - greensboro

“Lillie My sincere sympathy goes out to you.. I am terribly sorry to have found out about bama through the internet. I really hope you are doing fine....Read More »
2 of 16 | Posted by: Christopher Whitney - Edinburg, TX

“So sorry for your family's loss! What a man and what a character...I always enjoyed hearing his stories! Our prayers are with you! ”
3 of 16 | Posted by: Jason Cox State Farm Insurance - NC

“Dear Lillie, so sorry to hear about Alabama. Jim and I will be praying for you. It was always a pleasure to see you guys come to the grill to eat. My...Read More »
4 of 16 | Posted by: Jim and Vickie Crafton - Hickory, NC

“A trip back home to Valdese wasn't complete unless I got to chat with Alabam. Lillie, you are in our thoughts with great remembrances of the Man! ”
5 of 16 | Posted by: Truett Martin - Houston, TX

“Lillie and family, Jimmy and I are sending you all our sincerest sympathies at this sad time. I so wish we could be there with you, but health and...Read More »
6 of 16 | Posted by: Martha Ann Meinscher - Pensacola, FL

“A good heart has stopped beating, a good soul ascended to heaven. We part with our beloved friend. Alabam was a gentle giant, greeted everyone with a...Read More »
7 of 16 | Posted by: Melanie Moore - DREXEL, NC

“... a true life long friend indeed, he will be greatly missed and my life if better having known him for 50 years-one of my highlights of knowing him...Read More »
8 of 16 | Posted by: Mike Satterwhite Satterwhite - NC

“I have known Robert for a good many years and thought the world of him and His Lillie. I don't Robert ever met a stranger and he was very liked by...Read More »
9 of 16 | Posted by: Bill Robinson - Valdese, NC

“to the family of Robert we are sorry for your loss he was a good friend I will miss him a lot albert and becky deal ”
10 of 16 | Posted by: albert deal - morganton, NC

“Bama will always be Valdese's favorite son....You'll be missed my friend ”
11 of 16 | Posted by: "Leroy" Bridges - Valdese, NC

“Lillie, Just wanted you to know one of your 1965 classmates was thinking of you and wanted you to know each time we talked to "Alabam" in Valdese...Read More »
12 of 16 | Posted by: Norma Metcalf Conner - Raleigh, NC

“Sending thought and prayers to the family and friends of this remarkable man. ”
13 of 16 | Posted by: Jimmy and Cassie Donald - NC

“Honored to have a special friend like him,He will be missed greatly. ”
14 of 16 | Posted by: Robert woody - valdese, NC

“Alabama was a good guy. I'm glad our paths crossed on this earth. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. ”
15 of 16 | Posted by: Winfield Abee - NC - Friend

“I am so sorry for your loss. Alabam was a remarkable person that was friendly, kind and so good hearted. I knew him for 50 +years. He will be missed. ”
16 of 16 | Posted by: Glenda Smith - Hickory, NC

Mr. Robert "Alabama" Buckingham Whitney III, 74, of Valdese, passed away on Wednesday, August 8, 2018, at the VA Medical Center in Asheville, following a period of declining health.
Bobby was born November 26, 1943, in Alexander, Virginia, to the late Robert Buckingham Whitney, Jr. and Wanita Johnson Whitney. Bobby loved to talk about his childhood spending time on his grandparents farm in Georgia where he enjoyed riding the tractor and all the other farm activities. He loved people, talking to them, and getting to know them. His memory was a gift from God, as his closest friends will remember. He served in the Vietnam War and was eager to talk to other veterans. He learned the trade of brick mason and later small engine repair. Bob was a strong, honest, hardworking, fun-loving, generous man, always ready to help someone. He loved living and his wife of 45 years but was ready to go to be with Jesus, his Savior, on August 8th. He will be greatly missed by his family and many friends that he made over the years that became his family
In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his beloved grandparents, Robert Buckingham Whitney, Sr., Alyce Mae Hayden Whitney; Emmett Johnson, and Sally Victoria Smith Johnson.
Survivors include his wife, Lillie Moyers Whitney; siblings, Alyce Victoria Russell, Richard Johnson Davis, and Sarah Lonne Davis; and nieces, Amy Danette Till, Cassandra Lonne Poe, and Stephanie Nicole Poe.
A gathering of family and friends will be held on Saturday, August 11, 2018 from 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM at Heritage Funeral Service, with Rev. Mike Wakefield officiating
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project at PO Box 758516, Topeka, KS 66675.
An online guestbook and obituary is available at
Heritage Funeral Service and Crematory is serving the family.